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Posted by Dion Todd October 12th, 2025 827 Views 24 Comments

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. Isaiah 55:8–9 WEB.

There have been many times in life when I worked something out in my mind, planned how it should go, then watched as it went the other way. As a business owner, at times, it was frustrating. I felt that I needed to be in control. Sometimes I became angry because I thought it could have been a good break for us. Like Martha, I would ask Him, "Lord, don't You care?"

Time and time again, I saw that God had other plans for me. He often kept me from making a bad choice, though it looked good at the time. The Lord could see further down the road than I could. So thank God for those unanswered prayers.

He was often busy preparing me for the next stage of my journey and His next project. While I was working hard on "My plans," He was busy steering me to where I needed to be next. His plans sometimes involved being laid off, mistreated, and offended. At least that was my perception. In reality, it was mostly my pride that got hurt, and fairly often. God will discipline His children (Hebrews 12:7).

If my prayers had been answered, I wouldn't be a pastor or writing this. For we prayed, and we fasted, and we gave, and we begged God to bless our computer business, but He had bigger plans and could see further down the road than we could. He had prepared us to work for Him in the ministry, and when the time came, He squeezed us out of the old so that we would accept the new. I am happy to be here now, and it is better than I ever thought possible, but His thoughts were well beyond my thoughts at the time. I didn't care for the squeezing either.

Disappointment often comes when our plans don't line up with His plans. We struggle and strive to make a business work only to find that He is trying to move us into something better. We kick and fight and scream to hold onto the past when He is trying to gently pull it away so that He can get us to take the next step. It's like holding on to a bad tooth. God is always preparing you for the next stage of your life. What you are doing now is preparing you for what is coming. He will make it all worth it, and one day when looking back, it will make sense.

I am writing this to those that have submitted their lives to God as the Bible teaches us because that is who the promises are for. "In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:6). "Delight yourself in the Lord, And He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalms 37:4). "You shall seek Me, and find Me, when you shall search for Me with all your heart" (Jeremiah 29:13). "If you are willing and obedient, You shall eat the good of the land" (Isaiah 1:19).

These verses state, "If you do this," then "this will happen." Jesus, Himself said, "Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and don't do the things which I say?" (Luke 6:46). Our obedience is what makes Him our Lord and activates the promises of God in our life. Who shall eat the good of the land? The willing and obedient. Who will have the desires of their heart? Those who delight themselves in the Lord.

I have spent years of my life that were not submitted to God, and He let me roam like a wild weed, doing whatever I chose and reaping the consequences. My progress in life stalled, and years were lost. The Father didn't stop the prodigal son from leaving His house (Luke 15:13), nor will the Lord stop you when you fully understand what you are doing and choose to do it anyway. Yet, when the party is over, we are always welcome to come home to Him.

When I began to intentionally seek God daily, tried to live right, lay on the carpet, and pour out my heart to Him, things changed in my life. Does the way we live affect the blessing of God in our lives? Absolutely. "Don't be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that will he also reap" (Galatians 6:7).

Submit yourselves to God, and He will make your life worth living. He can fill the empty places. He can turn poverty into an abundance. He can surround the lonely with friends. He levels the playing field and brings the lowly up and the arrogant down. His ways are not our ways, nor His thoughts, but if we spend time with Him in prayer, He will share His thoughts with us. When our desires finally line up with His, great things will happen in us, to us, and through us.


Prayer: Heavenly Father, I submit my life to You. Use me as You will and put me where I need to be. Please share Your thoughts and plans with me so that I can be in tune with You. May Your will be done on earth, and in my life, as it is in heaven. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen!

Note: For those who would like to join us, today we will be hosting our RHM Live Online church service. This is a special time of interactive worship, prayer, fellowship and an inspiring message. All are welcome! The service starts at 10am EST. Here is the link to join: RHM Live. As always, if you have a prayer need, we are here for you! We and the prayer team are ready to lift you up at our private prayer page: RHM Prayer Network.

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Post from Dion Todd

Dion Todd commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

7 hours ago


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Comment from Lynn Brown

1 hour ago

Thank you Pastor Dion for another way to reach out to those who need to hear the Word!


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Comment from Nell Neathery

3 hours ago

Wow,,,that is fantastic and awesome news! I will defnitely go over there, since I can't go over there toward my home in the East! I would like to go out forever home mrtuch further than that: The Holy Land!



Post from Yvette York

Yvette York commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

3 hours ago


Amen Heavenly Father Please Help Me To See All Of The Changes You Are Doing In My Life Amen Good Morning Everyone Have A Blessed Sunday 😀



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Comment from Lynn Brown

1 hour ago

Have a blessed day, Yvette!🌞


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Comment from Susan Petho

2 hours ago

Good morning, Yvette, and RHM family. God bless you all❤️



Post from Liesel aka lisa Wardle

2 hours ago


AMEN and Amen! We're boxed in to limited thinking, and our current needs and often wants, but "His thoughts are not our thoughts", and His plans are not our plans, since we don't see the full picture as He does! So we best trust the Lord, our maker, He knows best and wants only the best for all of us as we fit into His plans for all of us! Therefore oh Lord, I submit to You, Your plans and Your holy will! - Also, My husband and I were truly blessed yesterday toward the evening when searching for something worth while to watch and listen to on TV, not just sports, a favorite of Tom's, and low and behold we found a program with George Beverly Shea, a Gospel singer and Hymn composer, who always accompanied Billy Graham on his crusades for about 60 years or so. And he sang lots of old beloved hymns bringing tears to my eyes! What a blessing it was and on top of it, today's service and good preaching from our Pastor, followed by praying for one another!! Praise the Lord, for He is so good!!!🙏



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Comment from Lynn Brown

1 hour ago

Amen!❤️



Post from Marisa Jackson

Marisa Jackson commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

1 hour ago


Amen 🙏🙏💝🙏🙏!!




Post from Susan Petho

Susan Petho commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

2 hours ago


Amen 🙏




Post from Theresa Bright

Theresa Bright commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

3 hours ago


Amen, thank you Lord 🙏🏻




Post from Debi Burton

Debi Burton commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

3 hours ago


Heavenly Father, I submit my life to You. Use me as You will and put me where I need to be. Please share Your thoughts and plans with me so that I can be in tune with You. May Your will be done on earth, and in my life, as it is in heaven. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen! ❤️🤟🏻




Post from Wanda Pennington

3 hours ago


Heavenly Father, I submit my life to You. Use me as You will and put me where I need to be. Please share Your thoughts and plans with me so that I can be in tune with You. May Your will be done on earth, and in my life, as it is in heaven. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen! Hallelujah




Post from Kay Collinsworth

4 hours ago


Amen




Post from Marilyn Salter

Marilyn Salter commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

4 hours ago


Lord help me to seek You with all that I am. I have seen your blessings and I understand that I must stop and let You have control. Help me to live a life that You will be proud of. Help me with my many flaws. In Jesus name I pray, amen.




Post from Bella Colliander

5 hours ago


Lord, use me as You will and put me where I need to be. Thank you for never giving up on me. I do love and appreciate You for all You do in my life. Looking up!! In Jesus precious name, Amen!!💜🕊️




Post from Celeste Strenn

Celeste Strenn commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

6 hours ago


Amen🙏🏽




Post from Liberty Brock

Liberty Brock commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

6 hours ago


Amen!




Post from Sherri McGraw

Sherri McGraw commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

6 hours ago


I am so grateful for those unanswered prayers Father God. Thank you God Amen!




Post from Mark Williams

Mark Williams commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

7 hours ago


Heavenly Father, I submit my life to You. Use me as You will and put me where I need to be. Please share Your thoughts and plans with me so that I can be in tune with You. May Your will be done on earth, and in my life, as it is in heaven. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen!



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Comment from Sylvia Todd

7 hours ago

Amen, brother 🙏!



Post from Brenda F

Brenda F commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

7 hours ago


Amen




Post from Bill Digiglio

Bill Digiglio commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

7 hours ago


Amen ..




Post from Dana Rozell

Dana Rozell commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

7 hours ago


Amen!




Post from Sylvia Todd

Sylvia Todd commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

8 hours ago


Good morning, fam, much love to all of you 💛! Praying you have a peaceful and most blessed day 🙏!




Post from Schalk de Beer

Schalk de Beer commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

8 hours ago


Yes, Abba Father, in Jesus's mighty name I pray this, amen. ✝️🛐




Post from Valeri Frank

Valeri Frank commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

8 hours ago


Amen!




Post from Richard A Smith

Richard A Smith commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

8 hours ago


Amen.




Post from Barbara Jackson

Barbara Jackson commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Unanswered Prayers

10 hours ago


Amen Amen Amen




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